I think I first read about the 'one little word' project on Sheila's blog,
Book Journey. Probably last year or maybe even before that. I noticed other people joining in and thought it was an interesting concept. Sheila wrote a very affecting post recently about her 2015 word and how it came to mean things that she never imagined -
One Word...What Can A New Year Bring? She also shared her new word for 2016 - courage -
Retiring a Word...Bringing in A New One. Her life is very different in 2016 than she ever thought it would be. I look forward to hearing how her word, courage, plays out this year. I support her and send her my thoughts and prayers and hugs.
For me, my thoughts went in a different direction. At the end of 2015, the minister at my church did a series on the word
JOY. I found it very meaningful and I shared a series of thoughts on my Facebook page during December. Yes, I do have a Facebook page, but I don't have it connected with the blog here. I don't post very often there and I use Facebook mostly to connect with family and non-bookish friends. Anyway, the word
JOY has been on my mind for several weeks.
I decided to continue exploring my thoughts on
JOY. That's my 'one little word'.
JOY.
The definition of
JOY according to Merriam-Webster is this:
1. the emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune
2. a state of happiness or felicity
3. a source or cause of delight
Well, no offense to Merriam-Webster, but I don't think happiness or a constant state of that is required to experience
JOY. I also think that
JOY can be something that comes in short bursts or even pin pricks. And I think that sometimes, it must be searched for, sought out, almost tripped over. That is how it has been for me, especially in those times where it was hard to find - those darker days.
I want to share two quotes that come from books written by
Louise Penny, a favorite author of mine. The first illustrates how I feel that
JOY comes to us. It's from her book,
How The Light Gets In, and is a quote that was originally written by
Leonard Cohen. He graciously gave Louise permission to use it.
There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in.
I think of
JOY as that light. And all of us have 'cracks' in our lives, our personalities, our ways of doing things. In order to appreciate
JOY best, we need those cracks - those life experiences that may not be the most pleasant - that indeed may be filled with grief and sorrow.
The second phrase comes from
The Long Way Home and it is repeated over and over in that book:
Surprised by joy...
My goal for 2016 - to search for
JOY every single day. No matter what life brings me. And to consciously attempt to share this elusive thing with others. Every single day. So that they might recognize that we can all be
'surprised by joy'. I look forward to seeing what I can learn from 'one word' this year.